Making Someone You Like Call You in a Tricky Way
When someone says “hit me up,” they’re implying that they’d like to get in touch with them. Try these methods if you can’t articulate what you mean.
The term “hit me up” is defined as “a technique of acquiring connections, to demand something, or to call” in the American slang bible The Urban Dictionary. Definitions like those can cover a lot of ground.
These subliminal ways of saying “I’d like to hear from you” will get people on the phone without you asking them directly. It’s not simply a phone call; you may also SMS me.
If you’re looking for a date, “hit me up” usually translates to “call.” If they don’t call, you won’t feel like a complete idiot because you casually asked them to. Because it’s a recommendation, not an order, to “hit me up.”
The best ways to say “hit me up” in a nonchalant manner.
You won’t get in trouble if you ask someone to call me and they don’t. Just because you say “call me sometime” doesn’t mean anything if they don’t. Hit me up can be said in a variety of ways that don’t involve expressing the three simple words.
Get their phone number and use it to call them.
If I had the courage, I’d go for it, but it’s quite a risk. You can, however, take their phone if things are going well and you want to do more than just have a casual meeting, and ask if you can put your phone number in it.
Your number should be marked as one of their favorites when you enter it. As a result, the next time they reach for their phone to make a call, your number and name will pop up.
Leave something behind by accident.
Make a mistake and leave something behind if you want someone to contact you. Naturally, there is a fine line between these two extremes of the artistic spectrum. A good rule is to never leave something behind that you can’t live without. You’re out of luck if you leave your keys there and they don’t see them or aren’t concerned. The problem is that if you don’t leave something that is more than merely arbitrary, people may not notice or think twice about making sure that it’s returned. As a rule of thumb, it’s best to leave behind an unloved glove or cap that can be replaced.
Gesturing is one of the best ways to express oneself.
The greatest way to say “hit me up” is to flirt. Even if you spend the night chatting and having a good time, they may not catch the message if you don’t flirt with them. Put yourself out there and show that you’re interested in the person you’re trying to impress.
Calling him by accident and then hang up.
In this case, the “Oh… I’m sorry, did I butt dial?” method will work. Call them, but only for a little moment so that they have no chance of answering. When they answer their phone, they will see your phone number without a message on the screen.
They’ll be perplexed as to your motivations in doing it. Text or call them back if they’re interested in hearing what you have to say. By saying, “Oh, I’m sorry I dialed by mistake,” you can recover the upper hand.
“Mistakenly” text him.
It’s a common occurrence. Intentionally sending a text to the wrong person? One of the worst mistakes you can make is getting two messages mixed up and talking about the same person in both.
Try texting them something like, “Okay, so then I shall see you there?” if you want someone to show up when you say, “hit me up.” They’ll wonder why you texted them, which will bring your name to mind. Saying “Sorry I was chatting to someone else” is an acceptable excuse if they respond. In addition to getting them to get in touch with you, they’ll be curious about who and where you were scheduled to see. In order to grab your attention before someone else does, let them know you have other possibilities, such as a potential love interest.
By accident, you snatch something of theirs.
For Psych class, it would be terrible if you got their notebook by accident. If this is the case, they may have to either look for it themselves or ask for your help. To go the extra mile, join them in person and play the notes they aren’t getting.
Most importantly, be subtle and don’t put them in an awkward situation, such as skipping a test or taking their car keys away. If they don’t follow through on your hit me up suggestion because of this, it will be a waste of time.
Nothing is more frustrating than being unwilling to initiate contact. You have to be sneaky if you want someone to come after you. In order to obtain an advantage, it is acceptable to influence others to an extent, but extreme caution should be exercised.
Saying “Hey, let me know if you want to go out” will suffice if everything else fails. They might not, which would be the very worst-case situation. Besides, why would you want to spend your life with someone who doesn’t appreciate your brilliance?