When Does the Number of Sexual Partners Become Excessive?

When Does the Number of Sexual Partners Become Excessive

In the quest for the perfect number of sexual partners, many individuals wonder when it becomes excessive. However, the reality is that there is no magic number.

Many people worry that they will be viewed negatively based on the number of sexual partners they have had. In my opinion, this figure is completely irrelevant. Does it matter as long as you’re safe and having a good time? Many people today wonder how many sexual partners are too many because we live in a judgmental society.

Today is a very judgmental era.

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Everyone has at least one flaw, whether it be that they are too tall, too short, too fat, too thin, too quiet, too loud, too sexual, or not sexual enough. No matter what we do, we will always lose.

Do you have any thoughts? Do you believe there is a threshold beyond which behavior goes from typical to excessive? Also, if there is such a thing, what is the precise figure, and how is it defined?

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The good news for those who worry “how many sexual partners is too many” is that there is no definitive figure; at best, demographic polls can provide an estimate. Some people’s “magic number” isn’t what they say it is. Many males feel they need to increase their number to appear sexually active, while many women feel they need to decrease their number to avoid being seen as excessively promiscuous.

For what reason should we pass judgment? Is there even a difference?

The sexual history is irrelevant to who you are.

The question is how many sexual partners one person can have.

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It’s just that if you meet someone new and they give you their phone number, you’ll probably form an opinion on them based on that fact alone. You’ll probably make up a number in your head that you’ll consider reasonable. Anyone above or below that, in your estimation, is either too aloof or too easily frightened.

These days, it seems like we just can’t win.

In conclusion? Nothing else matters as long as you are content with yourself, you are not engaging in risky sexual behavior out of desperation (and failing), and you are using condoms. That sum of money is meaningless. If you don’t want to share, that’s fine. There’s no need to count if you don’t want to.

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The question of how many sexual partners is “too many” or “too few” is not really pressing, yet we tend to dwell on it because of its perceived controversy. Some healthy debate is always welcome.

The average number of sexual partners in a lifetime is between five and ten, but this number might be more or lower depending on the individual and the stage of life. Maybe you had a dry spell that lasted for years, and now it’s as if you’re waiting for a bus. After a little while, five or six arrive all at once! Let’s talk about averages to see what folks think about their overall numbers. Remember that people lie.

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Men and women in the United States have an average of about 7.2. Despite a fairly high rate of lying about how many individuals they’ve slept with across both sexes, several surveys have revealed that more men lie about their sexual history than women.

No problem at all if you haven’t slept with more than 7.2 people; I have no idea where you got the numbers from, but there you are. It’s totally acceptable if you’ve shared a bed with more than 7.2 people.

Why worry about it?

If a person’s magic number prevented you from dating them, would you?

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Indeed, that is a thought-provoking query. What would you do if your crush’s sexual history was too high or too low?

To make that call, you’ll need to have a firm grasp on the concept of “too many sexual partners.” Okay, but what evidence do you use to make that claim? Do you automatically label someone as sexually compulsive if you find out they’ve slept with more than a few people? Do you suppose that a person who has had one or no sexual partners is utterly averse to physical contact?

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That’s not accurate, either. You can see that trying to reason using numbers and averages is futile.

It’s human to make blunders now and then. Some people go through periods where they may be searching for “the one,” and during this time, they kiss multiple frogs. That’s a simple strategy for boosting output with minimal effort. On the other hand, someone may have just had one significant relationship in their youth. Since then, they haven’t been in the mood for, or able to pursue, a close relationship. That’s a simple approach to cut down on the total.

It’s clear that your actual number is highly context-dependent.

Really, there’s no need to keep a tally.

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What do I think about this? Invalidate any attempts at counting. Stop right there; it’s not worth it. To what end? No matter what you do, you’ll just be disappointing yourself and living up to societal standards.

If you’re not happy, do nothing. As long as you’re content with it after that, it doesn’t matter what happens next. Just be nice to people, accept yourself as you are, and tell the truth whenever it’s appropriate. Ignore conventional wisdom regarding the number of sexual partners that is “safe” for a person to have. There is no such thing as “too many,” just as there is no such thing as “too few.”

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